08 7 / 2014
I haven’t been following the World Cup much other than the USMNT, but decided to pull up the game at work today…and it did not disappoint. Here are four of the many thoughts that ran through my mind as I watched the game today.
1. Whoa look at me! I’m watching the World Cup! This is the first year I’ve ever watched the World Cup (waking up early to watch when it was in South Africa? I don’t think so…) and the first whole (non-US) game I’ve watched. Despite not tuning in, I’ve been pretty up to date with what’s been happening thanks to Facebook newsfeed constantly exploding with excitement and anger during each game. Trying to figure out which team to root for after the US was eliminated, I asked my friend Mai-Anh and she gladly educated me on who the hottest teams and individual players were. She was pretty amazing at figuring out who I’d be fond especially since the only instructions I gave her were “You know me” and for that and all her on-point recommendations, – she has made this year’s World Cup all the more interesting.
2. Germany is a good looking team! An early favorite of mine was Muller despite his goal on the US back in Round 1 and the fact no one else finds him attractive. What do you need to muller over? He’s definitely cute! And Neuer? He’s neuer looked better! Neuer complaints here! And do I think Andre Schurrle is good looking? Schurrle thing! Erik Durm is Durm good looking! Mario Gotze? I’d like to gotze on a date with him! Okay I’ll stop. I’m not really sure what’s gotten into me…I’m not even sure I’m pronouncing their names right for my puns…but I don’t care. Cause what’s in a name?
3. Things Tim Howard Could Save: Brazil from Embarrassment. Watching Germany score goal after goal…after goal after goal after goal…after goal after goal…I thought “Hmmm Brazil could really use some Tim Howard right about now.” Cue a picture of one of Tim Howard’s diving saves…except he’s batting a tear away from a Brazilian fan’s face. I told my friend Adam about my clever idea who suggested I put it on Reddit…to which I responded I don’t know how to make a meme or use Reddit…so…that’s not happening. He must’ve forgotten how technologically inept I am and the fact I once asked him “How do I get the Youtube on the TV?”
4. Monica explaining the different erogenous zones to Chandler. When Germany made their 7th (and final) goal I immediately thought of Monica from Friends in the episode where she explains the 7 zones to Chandler and she keeps yelling seven…seven…seven. I would look for a clip/gif but as I’m typing this on my work computer – that’s probably not a good idea. Did anyone else make this connection? Or was it just me? Did anyone think of the movie Se7en? And Brad Pitt yelling WHAT’S IN THE BOOOOOOOX!? I’m not really sure what’s in the box in this scenario. A soccer ball? Brazil’s hopes and dreams? Tears? Seeing as Brazil’s number one export is now salt (as a side effect of the uncontrollable weeping), this could be their first shipment.
17 6 / 2014
My good friend Jackie turns 25 today and she asked me to write a post for her birthday so I was more than happy to oblige. As you’ve probably gathered from the title, she is a quadruplet – so her, her two sisters, and one brother, are all turning 25 today. Happy Birthday to the whole Dunten gang!
1. Group costumes. The possibilities are endless: Little Bo Peep & her sheep, Scrooge McDuck and his nephews, an assortment of Pokémon (or Ash and one Pokémon through all three evolutionary stages), Scar and the hyenas, Pac-Man and the Ghosts, etc. Honestly guys, it’s not too late to get the ball rolling on group costumes for all future Halloweens…I’m just saying. Hopefully, Jackie’s parents have a secret photo collection of all the themed Halloween costumes/outfits they may or may not have grown up with…and that these photos will make an appearance at her upcoming wedding in the form of a slideshow set to the tune of Sarah McLachlan’s I Will Remember You. I will remember you, costumes. I will always remember you.
2. Shenanigans. If you’ve seen Step Brothers, and all the fun that Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly had building bunk beds and making music videos, imagine if it was doubled. Instead of a duo, you’re a Barbershop Quartet (matching outfits a necessity). Four layer bunk beds? It could be like climbing Kilimanjaro nightly! You could propose turning your household into a democracy and always win the vote. 4 against 2? The Quadruplets win again! Switching places with your twin to get out of a hard test? You’ll always get caught in those classic sitcom scenarios…but imagine shuffling three identical girls! It would be like the street games where you try and find the ball under the cup – no one ever gets it. Unfortunately Jackie and her sisters aren’t identical…but it wouldn’t matter because they’re all ethical and morally upstanding people! So that scenario is more for a sketchier set of triplets or quadruplets….
3. Birthdays. 4 times the birthday…or possibly ¼ the birthday. Are you going to look at the glass ¼ empty or ¼ full? Your call. Having 4 birthdays to celebrate means having four times the celebrations crammed into one party. So imagine four very different parties…happening simultaneously. One quadruplet wants a heavy metal themed birthday. Another wants a princess theme. Another wants a safari theme. And another wants a 98 Degrees theme. Okay maybe the last one isn’t realistic since I’m the only one who would ever suggest that, and I’m clearly not a quadruplet…so let’s say the last one wants…a Candyland theme. You’ve just created a super party with princesses on a safari listening to heavy metal and eating candy – the unique experience of a lifetime. As an only child, I just had a normal birthday at some generic pizza place with a vanilla cake topped with fruit. I’m still fairly bitter about fruit cake being my celebratory birthday cake from ages 4-14. Why couldn’t I have the chocolate one? And why couldn’t my party have four completely separate themes?
4. Fun Facts. As a quadruplet, you have a guaranteed “fun fact” for all icebreakers. Icebreakers are inevitable anytime you start a new class, a new school, a new school year, a new internship, a new job, a new anything. Just last week we had to do icebreakers because we hired a new staff accountant. Fun facts are tricky – they can’t be too boastful, and they can’t be too boring – it’s a fine line. Sure my fun fact could be that I’ve been to three Luke Bryan concerts in one month – and it sounds perfectly fun to me, but probably borderline psychotic to strangers who don’t know me, or Luke Bryan. Or my fun fact could be that I was serenaded by 98 Degrees onstage one but that’s just boastful…I mean it’s true, but boastful. My coworker always has the worst fun facts. He just takes the fun fact from the person prior and either copies it, or says the opposite. Sample fun facts include: I have not been to Syria, I do not like cats, and I know how to ride a bike. Cool story, bro.
04 6 / 2014
Last week we had to complete a bunch of work safety courses with a wide variety of topics ranging from Office Ergonomics to Workplace Violence to Airborne Pathogens. Just as I finished the course on fire safety, one of my friend’s texted me about relationship advice and the best advice/metaphor I came up with was heavily fire-safety related. I’m not sure if my ramblings actually helped her or not, but she in turn helped me come up with this post - and it’s controller approved as I shared my plans to blog about it to him after he asked what I thought of the courses.
1. Class A – ordinary combustible materials. This is an ordinary fire that starts from basics like wood, paper, or cloth. In a relationship this would be a classic love story of boy meets girl, boy asks girl out, boy and girl slowly fall in love, boy and girl continue to make rational choices for the rest of their lives. Good for you two. I’m all about Class A fires! Also if you think about it, Class A fires can develop into the biggest fires. Think about how quickly trees catch on fire! They spread…LIKE WILDFIRE. There was even a fast spreading wildfire in this season’s finale of Modern Family. Maybe the fire in that episode was actually a metaphor for Cam & Mitch’s love? Too much of a stretch? Probably. But isn’t this whole post just a far stretch? Just bear with me…cause this post doesn’t really get funny til the Class D fires.
2. Class B – flammable liquids. This is a fire that is fueled by flammable liquids or gases. Flammable liquids are like modern technology for love. With all the new chemicals and products we have nowadays, what isn’t flammable? And with all the new websites and apps for dating, where can’t you find love? There are even weirdly specific dating sites like Singles with Food Allergies, Clown Dating, and Vampersonals. The symbol for Tinder is actually a fire – so that’s just strengthening my argument right there. So your Class B relationships are ones that can start from an online match to a quick right swipe.
3. Class C – electricity. These fires involve electrical equipment. This relationship starts with a spark and really takes off from there. This is someone you meet that you’re instantly attracted to, and it escalates very quickly. Next thing you know you’re writing on each other’s Facebook walls as you’re sitting next to each other discussing what you’re writing on each other’s Facebook walls. Then you discuss how you’re going to reply to the other’s Facebook wall post. Then a public argument for who loves who more ensues. Then you get blocked by people seeing this flooding their newsfeed…but who cares? You’re in love! You’re also probably making out all over the place in public with no idea what is and isn’t appropriate to do with your hands. Here’s a hint – it’s probably not appropriate. After a while the spark inevitably dies, but that doesn’t necessarily mean the fire does! For all you know this spark has caused an entire house to burn down. Or maybe in the end a spark is just a spark and it’s onto the next.
4. Class D – metals. These fires start from combustible metals. Now I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger…but I actually am. I’m saying it. D stands for digger. The metals are the gold she’s diggin’ for. These relationships start with one person attracted to the other person’s metals…so you better keep those gold plated cars, and platinum Rolexes coming. Are those things people ask for? I’m not super familiar with gold digging territory – people tend to gift me with cats, not cars. I’ll take two solid gold cat statues please!
28 5 / 2014
As I sit in the Portland airport waiting for my flight back to Houston, I think of all the great movies that feature a dramatic chase through the airport ending with a declaration of love and a fade out that leaves the viewer assuming a happily ever after. I then began to think how impractical and undesirable these scenarios actually are in real life….
1. The hook, line, and sinker. I’m not really sure why, but when I was young (meaning old enough to drink but not quite old enough to make rational sane decisions) I always thought it would be a cute story if we met on the dance floor as he used the ol’ fish and hook dance move. Our eyes would meet, he would cast out his line, I’d swim up and we’d instantly know we’re soul mate cause conversations started in a club after a fish and hook dance move are always so deep. Whats your name? Brian? Ryan? Bryan with a Y? Oh Marcus? Got it. Then a couple years ago on New Years Eve it happened - and it was the weirdest and creepiest thing I’ve ever experienced. Our eyes met and I quickly looked away sensing his creepiness even from 30 feet away. He threw out the line. I avoided eye contact. He threw it out again…I shook my head no. Then he pointed at me and made a fake swimming motion indicating he wanted me to swim up. No. Then he swam up…and I danced away. The end. Hook, line, and sinker? Oh he sunk alright…which in a way is my happily ever after…without him.
2. The great chase. I love movies where the girl is about to move away to her dream job and the man she loves realizes 10 minutes after her cab leaves for the airport that he can’t live without her. It’s always so dramatic and so romantic as he runs in out of breath ready to declare his undying love and everything she and every other girl in the world has ever wanted to hear. I hate running and I won’t even run through an airport to catch a flight so for him to do so…that says a a lot. TSA is a major downer nowadays with their new regulations on romantic airport gestures with their “security checkpoints” and “ticket verification” procedures. to my opinion there would be a side line (similar to premier access) where you can be screened and prioritized to make sure you get to your romantic gesture on time. Oh you don’t have bags to check? But you have a girlfriend boarding a flight in 10 minutes? Right this way sir. There’s also a flower shop on this route. And a jewelry store. And complimentary heart shaped chocolates. However as romantic as this all is, I can’t help but think if you really loved this girl maybe you just catch a flight to where she’s going and surprise her there. Don’t keep her from boarding a flight to her dream job. Are you worried she’ll meet the love of her life on the plane before you confess your love? Cause that’s another scenario unlikely to play out in real life and when I saw it happen in Bridget Jones Diary the guy was a drug smuggler and landed Bridget in a Thai prison… so there’s that.
3. The small detail he never forgot. Another favorite cliche is when a guy remembered something a girl says and surprises her with it later. Noah building Allie her dream house, Ross buying Rachel a brooch she saw in a shop window months ago, these are all amazing gestures that say “Hey, I’m a good listener AND I can afford to make your dreams come true.”Sorry Biebs - As Long As You Love Me was a catchy song and all, but I also need a home, food, and maybe a fancy brooch from time to time. Last year after my breakup, a guy I went on one date with two years ago messaged me wanting to take me out. We went out on one date and it as a fiasco - a lot had changed in two years…primarily how interesting he was and how interested I was. Spoiler alert - he wasn’t interesting and I wasn’t interested. We politely small talked via text the next couple of months but nothing serious. One day, an hour before I was about to head to my 26th birthday dinner, three months after our date fiasco, this guy shows up on my doorstep with an adorable orange tabby wearing a bow on its head. I had mentioned very briefly on our date I was considering a second kitten and here he was - kitten in hand. Do you know how hard it is to date when you’re a single mother of two cats? Cause I now do…
4. The long distance relationship that works out. As tough as long distance is, there’s a very romantic aspect to it often highly exaggerated in film and television. Even music videos! My friend Jackie and I went to the rodeo this year to see Hunter Hayes and one of his more popular songs is I Want Crazy with the music video plot being a long distance relationship where he decides to do something crazy and fly to surprise his girlfriend. I’m pretty sure he was actually flying a jet to see her, not just purchasing a weekend getaway ticket on Southwest. After he performed this song Jackie told me she wanted this for me. She wanted me to fall in love with some random Michigander at her wedding and begin a long distance courtship filled with surprises probably significantly lesser than Hunter Hayes’ secret piloting skills. Now practically speaking, I love travel but would I want to use my vacation days and excess money on weekend trips to Michigan? Probably not. And vice versa for my long distance soul mate. I did the long distance thing once in 8th grade after I met my first boyfriend at space camp. He lived in Colorado and we dated about a year. Even at the ripe age of 13 I knew long distance was hard. Now at age 26 I wouldn’t even set a Tinder radius past 15 miles. Oh you’re not inner loop? We’re done here.
19 3 / 2014
Whether you’re single, dating, or married, everyone has a workplace crush. You’re around these people for 8+ hours a day, it’s bound to happen. Now no one is saying you should act on this, I’m just saying this is happening whether you like it or not. Whether you like them or not…you like them. You like someone. Who is it? Is it the guy who sits across form you? Paul? Is it Paul? There is no Paul – that just sounds like a classic workplace name. Classic workplace Paul. Stop checking out Paul. Focus.
1. The impaired crush. This guy….sometimes so – sometimes no. Everyone knows when you’ve been drinking that people tend to become better looking. This is obviously not an issue at work, and if it is – you probably have bigger issues at work….like showing up so drunk that people start looking gorgeous. Go home, you’re drunk. Literally. A couple months ago I met a guy at work I thought was really good looking in the elevator. I was starving because my meeting had run through lunch and the cafeteria was closed. I saw him later that day after I had eaten some chips from the vending machine, and I didn’t even recognize him! It was like night and day. I could’ve sworn the guy I met earlier was taller, wearing a button down, a soft-looking sweater, etc. The guy I saw at night was disheveled wearing an ill fitting shirt and zip up hoodie. Maybe he changed, you’re wondering…no he didn’t - I checked…by outright asking him. HOW IMPAIRED AM I WHEN I’M HUNGRY!? Should I be driving under these conditions!? He tried to ask me out and frequently brought me coffee and cakepops from Starbucks to win me over…but little did he know the more well-fed he kept me, the less interested in him I was.
2. The guy that sits RIGHT THERE. I mean if you look at something long enough eventually you come around and think hey – not so bad. This is that guy. I like to binge-watch TV shows on my rare plan-free weekends and I’ve noticed that for Hulu, they run the same ads over and over again. I’ve seen the Skittles Taste the Rainbow commercials so many times that by the end of the day – all I want is a bag of Skittles. This is the work equivalent of that. One minute you’re sitting at your desk staring at the same guy you’ve stared at everyday this past week/month/year with zero interest, and the next minute you’re daydreaming about your life together…and a bag of skittles.
3. The handsome stranger. Who is this guy? Does he even work here? He could be an intruder – I didn’t see him swipe his badge…WHO CARES! HANDSOME STRANGER – PLEASE WORK HERE. Every workplace has one standout handsome guy that everyone knows is handsome. Whether he’s smart, capable, or even literate is irrelevant. He’s bringing the handsome to a picnic table filled with casseroles and potato salads. He knows he’s handsome. I know he’s handsome. The girl down the hall DEFINITELY knows he’s handsome. He’s handsome. Do I even need to explain this one? At my old job there was a handsome guy who looked like he could be on Mad Men except even more attractive than the actual cast of Mad Men (sorry Jon Hamm – you just don’t do it for me). We had giant summer bucket list poster boards up on each floor and one of the items someone wrote was to “find out who the handsome mad men looking guy is”. Eventually this turned into a manhunt on the 31st floor searching for someone who may have just been passing through that day…with all staff levels chiming in. Partners were having hushed conversations in their offices about who this guy was! The summer bucket list because an open forum with people writing questions and getting anonymous answers in the morning. Eventually HR removed the board…but the search continues.
4. The blindside. You never saw it coming. This is the work equivalent of those movies where your best friend was truly your soulmate all along…except he’s just that nice guy at work you never thought twice about. Oh that guy? We’re just friends. Then, one day he’s out sick and you realize your day is going by twice as slowly, you have no one to share lunch (or jokes) with, and no one else messages you or visits your office. Womp womp. Cue sad music playing as you sit outside eating a sandwich alone on a somewhat windy day watching the leaves falling from the trees. You throw your sandwich down and rush to his house with soup! Shit. Just. Got. Real. But, then the handsome stranger walks by and you forget all about him. Best friend…or mysterious bad boy…make the right call.
12 2 / 2014
1. It is okay to kiss someone who is engaged. Movies and television have a way of glamorizing things that would never fly in real life. On The Office, Jim pines after Pam for years and eventually kisses her despite the fact she’s engaged to Roy…and it was about damn time. I don’t know anyone who watched that scene and thought –“Oh no, what about Roy?” or “Oh no, are Roy and Pam not happening anymore? What about that one time he bribed the Sting and the Police cover band at Phyllis’ wedding to play their song even though it was by Jewel? That’s 20 dollars he’ll never get back!” Ok that part was cute. But come on – Jim and Pam (affectionately referred to as Jam) needed to happen. What about Noah and Allie in The Notebook? Allie was engaged….to a really nice handsome guy! But sorry Lon, you aren’t Noah and you never will be. But if this happened in real life, my first thought would not be go for it….it would be whoa. They’re engaged. I should probably let this go.
2. Cheating is inevitable in high school. Two of my favorite shows growing up were Sabrina the Teenage Witch and Boy Meets World and the best seasons were definitely the ones during their high school years. I loved Sabrina and Harvey especially when she had to take the test of true love and it involved a cheesy game show, resisting a shirtless guy offering cake by the pool, walking a dangerous rickety bridge over hot lava, and then having to kiss frog-Harvey. What I did not love was when Harvey caught Sabrina kissing Josh after going to check on her thinking she was home sick! Then there was the heartbreak that ensued when Corey and Topanga went on that ski vacation in high school (is this a thing?) and Corey hurt his leg and had to stay behind at the lodge while his friends went skiing. He met an employee at the lodge named Lauren, they talked all night, ended up kissing, and Topanga had to find out through a letter she found from Lauren? Boy Meets World? More like Boy meets Hussy. Sabrina the Teenage Witch…more like Sabrina the Teenage Hussy.
3. Killers are surprisingly easy to love. My favorite killer? Finnick Odair from the Hunger Games. He started killing at the young age of 14 when he became the youngest tribute to ever win the Hunger Games. But who cares – he looked damn good in that fishnet waist wrap thing eating sugar cubes. Nowadays so many movies and TV shows feature brooding vampires and they are super easy to fall in love with despite being unbelievably dangerous with murderous pasts. Edward may be a reformed vampire but he’s done some bad stuff in his time - and he made it blatantly clear when he tells Bella he’s dangerous…and a killer. Oh and a monster. Can’t forget that part! And yet, Bella, myself, and millions of others fell in love. Same with Stefan and Damon on the Vampire Diaries. They’re so lovable, Elena loves them both. They’re so lovable, I love them both. I think my friend Justine might be immune to Stefan’s brooding do-gooder attitude because she’s been Team Damon since Day 1, but mathematically it evens out. She loves Damon twice as much as me….and Damon is twice the killer than Stefan is. The math is there people.
4. Guys go for crazy girls. You have to be a mess. Full on damaged goods. You, the busted can of biscuits that have fallen on the grocery store floor going for 90% off in the manager special clearance rack….are everything that that dreamboat has ever wanted. In How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days Andie Anderson is literally doing everything humanly possible to drive this guy away in as little time as possible…and yet – they live happily ever after. Sure he also had ulterior motives for sticking with her crazy, and there’s a positive correlation between the amount of crazy tolerated, and the easiness of your face on their eyes, but a 10 day turnaround for love? Come on. Katniss from The Hunger Games, who is so wrought with emotional turmoil and has proclaimed repeatedly she is in no mindset to love, has two amazing guys head over heels in love with her. Gale’s amazing cause of his looks, and Peeta is obviously amazing for everything else…with a dash of handsome thrown in there. The aforementioned murderer Finnick Odair, who could have anyone (except maybe Katniss – but she doesn’t need any more attention), is in love with Annie Cresta who is known as the girl who has gone mad from her Hunger Games. That’s it – starting tomorrow I’m going to be way less put together. Goodbye coherent sentences and common sense. Hello new murderous maybe-vampire boyfriend.
22 1 / 2014
1. Professionalskepticism.tumblr.com. My friend Charman and I were discussing professional skepticism (an important motto at the public accounting firm I worked at) during dim sum one weekend and came up with the idea for a blog dedicated to us being professionally skeptical of random things. Oh there’s four shumai in this serving? Why is that? Where is the support? Can I tie out this amount to something else? Please advise. In auditing, to tie out something (like a 10K) means to agree/match the numbers to corresponding support so you know where all the amounts come from, and that they’re consistent and make sense. Thanks to Sarah & Ann for kindly reminding me that I talk like an accountant…and sound like a major nerd. Essentially this professionally skeptical blog would consist of photos of me and Charman giving inquisitive looks at random things (like the aforementioned shumai). However, upon practicing our professional skepticism looks we realized they resembled the McKayla Maroney is not impressed look and we were not looking to get sued.
2. Howshortisjoshhutcherson.tumblr.com. This one is pretty straight forward. How short is Josh Hutcherson? Well he’s shorter than Taylor Swift. Insert photo. How short is Josh Hutcherson? Well he’s shorter than this floor lamp from Ikea. Insert photo. How short is Josh Hutcherson? Well he’s shorter than this Douglas Fir Christmas tree. Insert photo. How short is Josh Hutcherson? Well he’s shorter than me….and that’s all that matters, isn’t it? Insert photo…and sad face – because I absolutely love Josh Hutcherson. Well I love Josh Hutcherson mostly because he’s Peeta Mellark, but nonetheless I still love Josh Hutcherson, and the blog Howshortispeetamallark.tumblr.com would be identical…except I don’t think they have floor lamps, Christmas trees, or Taylor Swift in the Hunger Games. How short is Peeta Mellark? Well he’s shorter than that tree. And that tree. And that tree. He’s shorter than all the trees. Everyone in the Hunger Games is shorter than all the trees. Well that was a short-lived blog.
3. Whereintheworldismyirishhamburglar.tumblr.com. A couple years ago when I was in Belfast, Ireland drunkenly stumbling out of a club at close, all I wanted was a hamburger. Lucky for me, there just happened to be a random food truck parked outside selling hamburgers but 30-40 people were already crowded around, and there was no semblance of a line or orderly ordering process. People were just shouting loudly and throwing hamburgers and money all over the place. Unsure where my friends were, I just stood there on the curb looking fairly sad and pitiful when the nicest Irish guy came up to me and asked what was wrong. I explained that all I wanted was a hamburger and then gestured towards the chaos of the food truck. He told me to hold on and quickly disappeared into the crowd reappearing a couple minutes later with a water bottle, and a hamburger. I’m not sure if it was the circumstances (I’m drunk and I need food) or if hamburgers are a secret underrated Irish specialty, but this was the best hamburger I’ve ever had in my life. This guy, potentially my soulmate, he got me. He got me, and he got me a hamburger…and not a drunken night goes by that I don’t wish someone would hand me a hamburger and a water bottle as I stumble out of the bar. Where in the world are you, my handsome Irish Hamburglar? Last spotted outside an unknown Irish club by a food truck with the word hamburgers on it…that’s enough details to find him, right social media?
4. Winnieandgailhaveafoodbaby.tumblr.com. A food blog where my friend Gail and I try to eat every dish on the Houston Press’ Top 100 Dishes List…and then document the fun times we had doing so. 80% fun times, 20% actual food related comments. Oh wait, this is a real blog…and we really are eating our way through Houston Press’ Top 100 Dishes List. Enjoy! Here’s the link again: Winnieandgailhaveafoodbaby.tumblr.com
09 1 / 2014
With engagement season coming to a close, and many of my Facebook friends popping up engaged, what better time than now (as a single 26 year old girl with zero current prospects) to start calling dibs on things? Sorry other people, should’ve thought of it first. Patent pending. Also, I’m fully aware none of these things can be patented….but copyright pending doesn’t sound as cool. And isn’t all that relevant either. Fair warning – I’m going to yell BAM a lot. A lot is going to happen, and it is going to happen very fast.
1. We open the reception with Chinese Dragons. It’ll be the ultimate blindside for people who know just how un-Asian I am, and for those of you who don’t – I’ve conveniently written a blog post about it already. You’re just sitting there at the reception, when all of a sudden the lights dim. What’s that sound? It’s drums. Whoa, were those paper lanterns there two seconds ago? I have no idea! Then BAM out of nowhere (and by nowhere I mean the grand entrance where everyone’s attention is directed,) A CHINESE DRAGON! Then another! And another! AND ANOTHER! It’s going to look like the scene from the end of Mulan…except we’re not under surprise attack by the Huns. Also in case it wasn’t clear…me, my husband, and the wedding party, are the ones underneath the dragons. I repeat – not the Huns.
2. Then after dinner (which will not be a Bacon Bar and/or Buffet cause my friend Gail already called dibs on that), a toast from the groom. I’m not sure which term (groom, or husband) makes me sound less weird and creepy writing this post, so I’ll use it interchangeably. Now this isn’t just any toast. This toast will center on the most spectacular moment of my life…so far. And of course I’ll act surprised…even though I’m clearly outlining the entire thing here. “Anyone who knows Winnie knows the best night of her life was when she was serenaded by 98 degrees onstage. Well I want to top that night, since you know it’s our wedding. Now, I know I’m no Nick Lachey, but here goes nothing.” BAM! Cue the entrance of his groomsmen, who serenade me with My Everything as I sit on a chair in the middle of the dance floor just like at the concert…sans the other three random girls. Sorry bridesmaids, you’re sitting this one out. Then, after the first verse, he cuts the music off and says “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, this just isn’t as good. I think maybe we should leave this to the professionals” then BAM! 98 Degrees shows up…underneath BAM! ANOTHER CHINESE DRAGON. That was probably too much, they can just enter normally.
3. Alright time to slow things down a bit. After 98 Degrees is done giving their heartfelt toasts, (thanks guys!), we begin our first dance. The first official dance that is, since there’s already been a Chinese Dragon Dance entrance, and a 98 degrees serenade (with a few dance moves sprinkled in here and there). My first dance song choice? Forever, by Jesse and the Rippers. Now whether it’s the original version with candles and a shirtless Uncle Jesse, or the weird hip hop version where he’s dressed as a genie, I’ll let you decide (links provided below). Sure, I love the classiness of the first song…but I also want to yell “Do the Jess Man!” and incorporate that into our first dance as well. Decisions, decisions.
4. Man, what a crazy wedding you just attended! Well time to call it a night I guess. OH WAIT – THERE’S PARTY FAVORS. Surprise – it’s kittens. You get a kitten, and you get a kitten, and you get a kitten! Can’t take yours home with you? Too bad – I’ve already left the wedding via hot air balloon.
02 1 / 2014
1. Stop procrastinating. You can probably tell from reading my posts that despite being 4 short paragraphs, some entries are started one week and finished another. My tips on traveling was started on a flight to Spain and finished well after my arrival back in Houston. The truth of the matter is – I started this post in 2012…the week before New Year’s Eve and all I wrote down was “Stop Procrastinating” and here we are – the first week of 2014 and I’m finally writing the rest. Guess that resolution didn’t really work out last year. Then again, there’s no guarantee it will even work out this year. Maybe you’ll be reading this in 2015 and really shaking your head at my horrible procrastination. I even tried to justify posting this for Chinese New Year last year to buy myself an extra month…but obviously missed that deadline as well. In my defense, busy season took over my January-May and I was lucky to get anything written in that time. This year – I have a new job, a renewed determination, and no more excuses.
2. Figure out the phrase “I’m all out of can’ts to give”. I love saying “I can’t. I just can’t.” Cause honestly most of the time I can’t. I just can’t. But then I heard the phrase “I’m all out of can’ts to give” and it really escalated the “can’t” situation. I mean it seems pretty simple at first. I can’t deal with this…I just can’t. I am all out of can’ts to give. But does that even make sense? If I’m out of can’ts to give doesn’t that mean all I have left are cans? No more can’ts here! That makes it sound like I’ve given out so many can’ts that all that’s left is positivity and cans. I’ve negativity-ed myself right into a positive can do attitude. Now that by no means is what I want to mean when I say I am all out of can’ts to give. I want it to mean like a super duper I can’t. LIKE I JUST CAN’T. I CANNOT. Is this paragraph even making sense? I don’t know. I can’t. I just can’t.
3. More nights I can barely remember & more nights I could never forget. I’m not really sure how to describe the nights I’m referring to and I doubt anything I write could even capture all the crazy nights I’ve had, so I will just leave you with the following overview and let your imagination run wild from there. Watching Greg sing Bound 2 to a Justin Bieber cutout. Telling my friend’s roommate “The Bear” that he was a gorgeous man, and then yelling at him not to look at me while simultaneously patting him on the head, asking him what soap he uses, and offering a 98 Degrees-esque neck massage. (Sorry again about that John). Backstreet Boys AND Luke Bryan - twice in one year. Waking up with a Fast and Furious 6 keychain, and a picture with Santa not knowing where either came from. Accidentally/unknowingly attending two different raves in one night. Working 37 hours straight and deliriously falling asleep in my chair with my mouth open as my coworker passed out on the floor in a parka. Watching A Madea Christmas with Sarah and wishing we were live tweeting the entire movie (particularly the scene change animation and Chad Michael Murray’s southern accent). Watching Snoopy the musical, then going out for a “chill night” which ended up with me drunkenly singing “the sun will come uppppppppp – tomorrow! Bet your bottom dollar thaaaaaaaat tomorroooooooow…there’ll be sunnnnnn” while stumbling around midtown. Aaaaand any and all nights that involve being in a foreign country or eating at Whataburger.
4. Let go of my biggest regret of 2013: not going to the One Direction concert. I have the DVD…and tickets to their concert next year. It’s time to move on.
31 12 / 2013
As I get ready to go out and celebrate the last day of 2013, I’ve realized that this has been a pretty damn good year. When I turned 25 last year Anthropologie sent me a birthday discount on a postcard that read Best Year Yet… and boy were they right.
1.The moment I realized my 25th birthday wish was coming true. Last birthday, I wished that 98 Degrees would get back together, go on tour, and pull me onstage to serenade me with “My Everything”. I was already uncontrollably excited when 98 Degrees announced they were getting back together and going on tour with New Kids on the Block, and Boyz II Men, but never in my wildest dreams did I ever think I’d be picked. Anytime I saw a girl get pulled on stage at a concert I assumed they were preselected somehow by a creepy manager figure trolling the crowds. Let me assure you…this was not the case. To avoid wasting your New Year’s Eve reading a play by play of my on stage serenade (which could easily take up all four spots of this list), I’ll save the full story for another post.
2.The moment I realized I might not hate mayonnaise. I’m not sure where this hatred stemmed from, but I’m 99% sure it’s because the smell. When I was 12 I read in a magazine that if you put mayo in your hair and let it sit for half an hour, then rinse, it’ll make your hair super soft. Believing everything I read in Teen People, Seventeen, and Tiger Beat, I immediately decided to try it out. I don’t remember my hair being that much softer than usual, but I do remember this engraining my lifelong hatred of mayo. Little did I know – I had secretly been eating mayo all along. Mini turkey sandwiches from Central Market? Mayo. Vietnamese Banh Mi? Mayo. My beloved lobster rolls from Mainely Sandwiches? Mayo. Shrimp with Mayonnaise Sauce? Mayo. Not sure how that last one slipped by me for so long…but here’s to trying new things in 2014! Not you Chicken Salad, I still hate the idea of you. Mayo and celery. Please.
3. The moment my blog hit 100 likes…and then some. I currently have 115 likes: 99 are my friends, and 16 are complete strangers that somehow find me funny enough to throw a like my way. Even though that doesn’t seem like a lot when pictures of kittens and ecards are reaping in millions, it makes me incredibly proud and downright giddy since a year and a half ago my blog existed solely as a slew of incoherent rambling texts to my friends. Now I’m not sure how to say this next part without sounding like an egotistical jerk…but I get super excited every time someone tells me how much they love my blog or how funny the posts are…especially when it’s someone I had no idea was reading my blog or would even want to read my blog. Back in September, Sarah, a girl I knew in high school, messaged me about how much she and Ann (another girl from our high school) enjoyed reading my blog at work and then invited me to her birthday party. Needless to say, being invited to a party by two of the cool girls from high school felt like a pretty big deal….and we’ve been friends ever since! Of course still referring to them as the cool girls when we’re all 25-26 now, may count against me - so I should enjoy this while I can. Winnie – you have arrived. Oh now that I’m a big deal – I refer to myself in third person. I mean…Winnie refers to herself in the third person.
4. The moment I realized I might not be an introvert anymore. Over the summer during my A3 training at work we each had mini discussions at the end with the instructor to discuss our performance. During my session the instructor noted that I was fairly quiet when it came to answering questions and he had a good idea why. Feeling like I was about to get called out for not knowing what was going on (ever), I was relieved to hear that the instructor thought this was because I was an introvert and even confided in me that he was a bit of an introvert himself. The idea made me laugh because this had nothing to do with why I wasn’t speaking up, but I let the discussion run its course and vowed to him I’d work on my communication skills. He may have also implied that my culture/upbringing probably elicited a quieter, more conservative, demeanor not realizing that I was born and raised in Houston by a fairly liberal mother. As I was retelling this story to my table group it hit me…I am discussing something with a group of relative strangers, but my heart isn’t racing and my voice isn’t shaking…and I’m actually talking…aloud. It was at this point I realized my introverted days might be behind me. Either that or during one of the countless times I was dancing and yelling shots shots shots in a bar with my coworkers.